There are some questions about men that only a guy can answer. We asked the dudes at guyspeak. Q: My boyfriend is very open with me about his last relationship—it lasted four years and it ended badly. He's almost too open about it.
Ask a Guy: "Why Does My Boyfriend Talk About His Ex So Much?"
11 Signs He's Using You To Get Over His Ex
Dating a guy who recently got out of a relationship can be tricky business — while he may claim to be "totally over it," his heart might still be on the mend. You deserve a guy who's percent focused on you, not his last girlfriend, so to help you determine whether or not he has actually moved on and whether you should , here are nine signs that a guy could be still hanging on to his ex. Trombetti says that a guy who constantly talks about his ex is probably still hung up on her. Some of the telltale signs that she's clearly on his mind: "If he talks about her a lot in conversation and her name continuously comes up, along with things they did or shared together. And while he may totally innocently call you her name once, maybe twice, beware of a guy who does it in emotionally-charged moments, like during sex or an argument, she says. Try this experiment to see.
7 Red Flags That Your Partner Talks About Exes In An Unhealthy Way
He doesn't compare you to her. Do you frequently compare your current and ex-boyfriend? No, right? Stacking people up against each other like that is reductive and a waste of time. They chose to end it.
It's a touchy subject! How much do we actually want to know about our boyfriends' exes? Would we rather they dislike them or be friends with them? Honestly there's no perfect answer, but Ariana might have had the right idea in her song "Thank U, Next.